tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post9172708537130811610..comments2023-10-25T11:26:59.760+01:00Comments on Musings of a Quaker Witch (Pagan Quaker): Do you have to get divorced every time you move?Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05201286586062722169noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-10579550113362737982011-05-26T07:16:25.076+01:002011-05-26T07:16:25.076+01:00thanks for your post, and your earlier one on this...thanks for your post, and your earlier one on this topic, as it presents a concrete picture of what the issues are.<br><br>and a question: do vacations in a different state also create a number of uncertainties and potential problems?<br><br>eg, you take a vacation in another state, and have need of emergency medical care during the trip. will your visitation rights to your partner still be Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-49949695091435223222011-05-27T00:18:26.812+01:002011-05-27T00:18:26.812+01:00Sadly, as bizarre as all of this is, this informat...Sadly, as bizarre as all of this is, this information doesn't surprise me. I've learned to expect aburdity in the laws related to the civil rights (or lack thereof)of LGBTQ couples and individuals. I'm glad you're writing about this. It is important that we refrain from getting too comfortable with injustice. I'm glad you are willing to sensitize people who might prefer Hysteryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02044678910937934731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-52225502586983417352011-05-31T21:13:21.873+01:002011-05-31T21:13:21.873+01:00Hi, Stan! Thanks for your comment. You raise goo...Hi, Stan! Thanks for your comment. <br><br>You raise good points! <br><br>Yes, vacations in other states present all sorts of uncertainties and problems. And what about what might happen en route, in yet another state? <br><br>Plus, some states, such as VA, refuse to recognize not only domestic partnerships, civil unions, and marriages from other states, but also adoptions and even health staśahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05201286586062722169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-6881653556600316052011-05-31T21:15:34.760+01:002011-05-31T21:15:34.760+01:00Hystery, thank you. I feel like I walk a fine lin...Hystery, thank you. I feel like I walk a fine line sometimes between writing in a way that helps people hear; writing my outrage in a clear way; and sputtering in incoherence. <br><br>Thanks for your support, for being clued in, and for listening.staśahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05201286586062722169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-90536680247069476152011-06-01T08:42:59.290+01:002011-06-01T08:42:59.290+01:00A lot of people I've been talking to lately ha...<i>A lot of people I've been talking to lately have been truly shocked to hear this. <br><br>And that has surprised me.</i><br><br>I agree that it's sad how many people don't realize what's at stake, and that raising awareness is essential. I think I appreciate how draining it can be to face and overcome that sense of shocked disbelief every time you need to explain your bnewmanhttp://bnewman.dreamwidth.org/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-11146727560054405212011-08-10T15:36:55.725+01:002011-08-10T15:36:55.725+01:00A Friend at the NPYM Queer Quakers gathering this ...A Friend at the NPYM Queer Quakers gathering this year joked about a conversation something like this:<br><br>"HOney, where should we go on vacation this year?"<br><br>"I dunno. Where can we get married that we haven't been to before?"<br><br>Then there would also be the hip trendy term poly-monogamy for all the same gender couples obliged to get married over and over to RantWomanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17611656459134372290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1780629013428444572.post-43452155525193822112011-08-12T14:39:54.462+01:002011-08-12T14:39:54.462+01:00Oh, my! Yes. That's great!As far as I know, ...Oh, my! Yes. That's great!<br><br>As far as I know, nobody got married in Iowa who went there for FGC Gathering this summer, although there was lots of joking around about that last summer. <br><br>Poly-monogamy... *snerk*.<br><br>I have a follow-up post I should write once we settle in (we just moved)...staśahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05201286586062722169noreply@blogger.com